Should You Tell Your Guests How to Dress at Your Reception?

It might be a hassle for some of your guests to rent a tuxedo and good hostesses don't hassle their guests. A simple solution is to use the wording "black-tie invited" or "black-tie optional." That way, those who own tuxedoes or don't mind renting one will go ahead and wear them, and other male guests will know they should wear a nice dark suit. Mentioning the formality of your wedding will also help female guests know what they should wear. Do it that way and everyone will know that your wedding will be formal, and that they should dress appropriately.

One thing you have to keep in mind is that many people are budget conscious these days. Not that they would deliberately turn up looking like slobs to your reception, but given the current economic climate, it might be easier on all involved if things are kept low-key for the sake of making everyone feel welcome and comfortable.

If you're part of a couple that likes to keep things casual and free-spirited, there is no reason to plan a stuffy, formal affair that's just going to make your guests feel uncomfortable. Many contemporary weddings have a fun, semi-formal atmosphere that encourages guests to have a good time, without having to be trussed-up in formal attire. Be sure to make this clear on your invitations; many guest would rather go "cocktail chic" rather than "black tie." You can be sure if your guests are comfortable in their surrounding and attire, a good time will be had by all.

Gal Harat is a Diamond and Engagement Rings expert who writes for many well known bridal and fashion magazines. His contributions can also be found on many lifestyle Web sites and blogs.